My wife has a distinctive way to read books, especially mystery books. About a third of the way through, her curiosity and anxiety about the outcome begins to dominate, and she can’t continue without knowing what’s going to happen. So she skips to the end. If it’s a mediocre book, that will suffice. If it’s a good book, she’ll go back and read through to the end again, taking pleasure in the journey and the quality of the writing.
Generally I have more patience with outcomes. Not now. Not with the political drama that’s playing out this week. Not with the powerful—I think it’s fair to say desperate—need to defeat Trump and his Senatorial enablers. Not with the entire democratic process potentially falling prey to the president’s need to stay in front of the cameras. Not until Trump is gone. Then I will relax.
These days, I can hardly breathe, and I can’t think straight.
Like most of my friends, I spend an inordinate amount of time reading and thinking about politics. I read the New York Times, the Washington Post, The Atlantic, Politico, The Daily Beast, Vox. And I listen to Ezra Klein podcasts to get a deeper knowledge of the issues, to get behind the headlines. To fortify my opinions. Admittedly, I am mainly in search of reassurance.
I read and I think as though my efforts will make a difference. I know, I know. This is childlike magical thinking, but I can’t help it. Even when my mind seems fully and intelligently engaged, the magical thinking dominates my spirit. If I miss something, the Biden camp might miss it too. Somehow, I need to send them the signals, warn them if they aren’t taking care of business.
I do think and accumulate knowledge—I know more about politics now than I ever have in my life. Far more than during the Nixon run to the presidency or the awful George W. Bush regime. And, embarrassingly, far more than during the Great Society, when my values were better represented. I could write a book on all that I’ve learned.
But, at base, I’m not really learning and thinking. I’m feeling. I’m angry and I’m frightening and I’m embarrassed for my country.
I am angry at the Republican lies and venality. I am angry at the racism, come finally and fully to the surface. I am angry that our country features minority rule because of the distorted distribution of power that is built into the Electoral College and the Senate. Yeats once wrote that “the best lack all conviction” while “the worst are full of passionate intensity.” As a result “The blood-dimmed tide is loosed, and everywhere the ceremony of innocence is drowned.” When I imagine a Trump victory—that “rough best, its hour come round at last”—I feel like I’m drowning.
And I’m scared. I’m scared that the ideals—what Jill Lepore calls “These Truths”—that have animated the best of our nation’s aspirations, the ideals that have provided me with an ethical baseline during my entire life—may tumble. That oligarchy and authoritarian government, filled with corruption and narcissistic pillage, could take my country from me. I’m scared about the ascendance of right wing conspiracy theories and their soldiers, the militias who threaten to bloody American streets.
I am heartbroken when I think that we might fall short of the multi-cultural democracy so eloquently represented during the Black Lives Matter protests.
When I step back and ask: would a right wing, racist oligarchy effect my personal life? Probably not. That’s a little embarrassing. My family and I would likely continue in our secure middle class life. We would eat well. Someday my wife and I may even travel again. We wouldn’t live pay check to pay check. Our savings are good enough.
But the vast majority of people will suffer and suffer more. Especially people of color. Along with everyone else, my children and grandchildren will suffer when the earth heats up and the air turns poisonous. And the water isn’t drinkable. And it becomes harder and harder to dissent because an authoritarian government has been installed, the run by people who are as evil but more competent than Donald Trump.
On the other hand, the current historical moment might be a true turning point. The other side of a White, minority rule oligarchy is a far truer multi-cultural democracy. This possibility is new and breathtaking. Literally, the potential amazes me. And because I hope so intensely for this outcome, I also find it hard to breathe as I wait for the outcome.
For the first time in decades, this transformation is more than a thought. It feels real. It feels imminent. I feel like I will be at home at last. If it is realized, I will breathe freely.
OK, there’s still the pandemic. I could get sick. I’m 78 and I have pre-existing conditions. People I love could get sick. But oddly enough, the pandemic seems different. There are ways we can effect the outcome: wearing masks, keeping our distance, washing our hands, testing for Covid-19, tracing the outbreaks before they explode, and the like. I can talk with others who suffer with the stress of it all, and work with a few healthcare leaders. I feel a small sense of agency about Covid-19, even it if means that Franny and I have to shut ourselves in our home.
I wish I could feel that same sense of agency in politics. The sense that I can effect the outcome. I remember playing basketball, being totally involved. I was never as nervous as when I was rooting for my son or my team, when I was outside looking in. We do a little. We give money to presidential and senatorial campaigns. We vote. But it feels like a spit in the ocean. The giving itself sometimes even adds to the helpless feeling.
I can’t wait until the election season is over and we’ve won. Then I’ll breathe.